mean drunks, how can someone become a nice drunk?

Many people know someone that is a mean drunk. Someone can be a really nice person but when they become intoxicated, they act outside of their normal, kind personality. So if someone is a mean drunk what should they do about it: stop drinking completely, drink less, or maybe try anger management? I believe if someone is a mean drunk they don't necessarily have to stop drinking alcohol all together, they just have to find a way that works for them such as drinking in moderation. What do you think, what should a mean drunk do to stop being "that guy"?

nice guy or jerk, who do women prefer?

People always complain that women want jerks. I believe that everyone looks for different traits when searching for their significant other. That being said, I believe that women many times do go after jerks because the guy was being fake when they met or she confuses being nice as a weakness. I believe that women should choose nice guys over jerks becasue they will be much happier with a nice guy in the long run. What do you think?